What is good parenting?

Good parenting is the duty of the parents to make their child/children as good adults for the society. Good adults having the following characteristics

  • Autonomy
  • Maturity
  • Self confidence
  • Self directed
  • Self esteem
  • Solid decision making skills
  • Being practical
  • Multi tasking
  • Experienced
  • Open minded
  • humble and modest
  • Bold and strong
  • Having good physic and healthy
  • Having helping tendency
  • Knowledgeable
  • Responsible
  • Committed
  • Lovable
  • Understandable

Make your child as a good adult with all the above characteristics is difficult. You should make your child with the above list of characteristics as much as possible. To make this happen you should redefine yourself with the above characteristics first.

You should be a good role model to your child because children will learn and copy more from you and your environment.

You should love them and always you should express your love to them. Love makes your child as good adult.

Set rules and standards for life and teach them with love and polite.

Always trust your children, and spend time to listen their words. It will increase trust and confidence on you and they will share their feelings and experience with you.

You should always match your mental age to your children, so that you can understand your children better and they think you are their good friend and well wisher.

Never ever harsh to them even they are wrong on few things. Correct them with care and love.

Speak a lot with your children about your life and experiences so they will get more experience from you.

Make them part of your day to day work so that they will be more independent and experienced.

Make them habituated to giving to others and helping others. Giving and helping always make them happy and increase their helping tendency.

Make them to participate in sports, games and competition activities, so that they experience the taste of win and loss.

Make them comfortable in dark place, so they will not fear about darkness.

Teach them about the opposite sex and the behavior and teach how to handle and respect them. This will make their life comfortable in the long run.

Teach them how to do forming and cultivation and how important the forming is for their food.

Teach them swimming so that they learn how to be in other medium.

Teach them about your family, friends and cultural values.

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